On Jun 14, 4:32 pm, "unicorn...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
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<unicorn...@[EMAIL PROTECTED]
> wrote:
> Hi all,
> I really need your prayers and I know you're all
> really good at being there in times of need. Deryni
> Group, I know I haven't been around much lately, but I
> know you're always there when I need you!
> My mom collapsed this morning. She's in a coma and
> apparently has had a deep brain non-bleeding stroke.
> According to my doctor friend Meg that's better than a
> hemoraigic (sp?) stroke. Whatever, she's still
> unconscious and in critical condition with very low
> pressure. They haven't yet been able to determine the
> extent of the brain damage. Because she signed a
> Power of Attorney/DNR thing the last time she was in
> the hospital, giving me Power of Attorney, I may have
> to make the ultimate decision about turning off the
> ventilator if it's determined that she is brain dead.
> The doctors at the hospital (not my hospital but the
> one nearest our house) are very negative and have
> already suggested that. I told them I wouldn't do
> anything without getting her to our hospital and
> getting a second opinion from our doctors.
> My doctor friend Meg says not to do ANYTHING for
> some time because her dad had a similar experience and
> was in a coma for like 30 days and then came out of it
> and was fine. So I'm not doing anything irrevocable
> for some time. But it's really scary and I basically
> need a miracle. So I need lots of prayers!
> Julianne, if you could please get the
> Michaelines working on Mom (Her name is Helene Werner)
> I'd appreciate it. And if anyone has candles, holy
> water, or anything else (Jewish, Islamic, Hindi...I
> don't care! Whatever works!) Please use it!
> Thanks!
> Love,
> Susan
Oh no! I'm so sorry, Susan! I'm so glad you have Meg there to help
and give you the benefit of her medical advice and experience. I hope
your mother's case will be like her father's, but I definitely
empathize with your fears, right now. I definitely agree you should
not do anything drastic without getting a second, and even third and
fourth opinions on your mother's prognosis. Talk to your mother, even
if you're not sure she can hear you, and reassure her that you're
there, and are not just going to lose hope of recovery. I hope the
other medical opinions give you more hope than the current situation
appears to indicate.
All prayers prayed, incense burned, candles lit, and "Wake up,
Helene" Woodgies sent. May the angels surround her hospital bed and
guide her back to you.
{{{Susan}}}
Meliss


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